True Meaning of "Love"

Religions have managed to make people spiritually weak by brainwashing society how not to love themselves.. What they fail to recognize is that if you do not love yourself you are not equip to love someone else...

The teaching in the Christian bible is very tricky... it says "Love others," because they know if you cannot love yourself you cannot love at all. But they go on saying, "Love others, love humanity, love God, love nature, love your wife, your husband, your children, your parents, but don't love yourself" – because to love oneself is selfish.......How is love classified??? human vs. godly... when i say i love you.. is it only personal or perhaps impersonal?? family or non-family... friends or enemies??

is love for you an emotion based on pleasure & desire.. or is it a state of your being??And my favourite of all which we see daily.... romantic relationships, friendships etc.... as long as we are together.. and you belong to me.. i love you.. but the moment something changes... i begin to stop loving you and perhaps hate you...... is this love????What is this explain??......`I will love' or `I have loved'... this is bullshit for me.... non-existant.. delusional... today i love you because you served my needs.. tomorrow.. ohhh just fuck off...

People asked me how I manage to have still good relationship with my ex-boyfriend of 9 years.......?? and we still go for coffees, hang out and we still laugh and we still hug and we still kiss.. how?????? because of love......... because nothing has changed for me and him........ i have not stopped loving him.. nor will do when he will move on...... nothing has changed.... my love for him will always be the same state of being... he will always be part of me.... just like my friends, my animals, my family, my enemies.. that have left.. and new ones that come.... that is my nature... I do not have a friend because today I need them and 2mmrw I hate..... no.. i don't operate like this.... sure I will choose who i hang out with, but will not change the love I feel for them... for me this is mastery of love...

Ironically how they all give their nice Godly advise to me.. how I hurt my ex by still talking with him and visit him and treat him the way I used to.... they "believe" its wrong... that I do not let him move on... and if i keep him in my life I dont release him...what a bull.... what a load of crap this is for me..... they can never have an inch of particle of what I had... if they only knew what the word love meant....but how could they?? the world is messed up........

To reach mastery of love is a huge thing...... and from the first glance i greet people I know how they define love... i love people and don't have expectations as much as my human nature can comply to this... sure it hurts seeing them fucked in disillusioned love but this is life......

©Selin'Adjana (Marina G. Roussou)