Why do people cheat?

We heard it always by women and men.... how on earth can we trust someone after they cheat on us???Well its quite simple.. what is required by you is to trust the potential of this person.. to trust his deep inner purity, which infidelity cannot ever destroy..When one is cheating.. it is because he is accustomed to cheat... its how he learnt in society...... i can honestly describe him as a victim..... for he is not really responsible..... and why on earth wouldn't you place trust on a victim...When a person cheats, you can only really feel sorry for him... If he were really happy on his inner world.. would have have cheated??

Certainly not.... his lust for cheating, thought could ease his pain.... but did it really??As people, we fail to see the deep reasons why one would attempt cheating on people... see we are very shallow.... our ego and pride will get in the way. and we will say... the bastard.. the bitch... he/she cheated on me...If you have been cheated on... well, its a perfect time to look also within yourselves... you might have yourself on a pedestal and think everyone else is to blame... but you evoked a cheating spouse...... and the cheating spouse.... look within you... why the misery?? look at why you are led to cheat... you are really miserable when you cheat.......I can only lend a crying shoulder to people that cheat....... they have no sense of direction in love....If one knows the real meaning of loving thyself... and why we lead to cheat on someone.. then the mystery is solved...Do not lose trust when someone cheats on you....

Just trust him for the simple reason that he is a human being and makes mistakes.......Today you have a chance to help others and stop only thinking of yourself... You will wait until you die to start helping others? If you are more evolved than them and know that cheating is not a nice thing... why are you expecting people to behave like you... if they behave that way.... they don't know better..you are more equipped with understanding its not nice to cheat.. so why would you create a World War II and fight with a victim.. you think that will stop him cheating in the future?? By you raising your weapons?.... the same mistakes will be repeated...... By putting on your CAPS Locks... will only worsen the situation.. and in the end you will lose in trust... and then history will repeat... more trust issues in your life...Doesn't matter if he is trustworthy or not... that is not your business.. its solely his... Help him and die trusting him... that is my advise..It is not today i love you because you no cheat.. and tomorrow me no love you because you cheat.. this for me is a sick love!!!! If you continue to love unconditionally and again no results.. then is the perfect time to evaluate whether its worth remaining in a cheating relationships.., but unless you die trusting.... you will never greet trustworthiness..

©Selin'Adjana (Marina G. Roussou)

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